THE WORK PEOPLE DO NOT SEE
Care includes the coordination nobody applauds.
Meals, schedules, reminders, appointments, forms, rides, and the mental work of keeping more than one person moving can fill a day before anyone names it.
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The invisible part of care is not proof that one person should carry it alone. Naming the work is one way to make practical support possible: take a pickup, bring a meal, cover a task, listen without trying to solve everything at once.